Posts by Transforming Center
Season 28: Episode 4 | Advent Week 4: Soul Work in Winter
In this final episode of the Advent season Ruth and Marilyn discuss the unique spiritual invitations and soul work of the winter season. They touch on the inward journey of…
Read MoreCynthia’s Story: The impact of a Transforming Community in the life of a pastor
My name is Cynthia and I am an ordained United Methodist pastor. Transforming Community came at the right time for me. I was looking for a spiritual director when I…
Read MoreSeason 28: Episode 3 | Advent Week 3: Beyond Safety
In this week’s episode, Ruth and Marilyn discuss the themes of winter and vulnerability. They explore the metaphorical storms of winter, praying beyond safety, and infinite longing. The conversation also…
Read MoreSeason 28: Episode 2 | Advent Week 2: Blue Christmas
This week, Ruth and Marilyn discuss the concept of Blue Christmas services that acknowledge grief during the festive season and offer consolation to those experiencing loss. The episode also delves…
Read MoreSeason 28: Episode 1 | Advent Week 1: Invited Inward
In this season of the Strengthening the Soul of Your Leadership podcast, Ruth invites listeners to embark on a unique journey during Advent 2025. Departing from traditional liturgical approaches, we…
Read MoreSeason 27: Episode 5 | Creative Work: Partnering with God in an Age of Distraction
As we wrap up our season Taming our Technologies: [Spiritual] Practices for a Digital Age, Ruth and Jay delve into the topic of technology’s impact on deep and creative work.…
Read MoreSeason 27: Episode 4 | Beyond Relevance to Transcendence in Community
In this episode, Ruth and returning guest Jay Kim explore the intersection of technology and community within the church. They discuss the nuances of digital and in-person church experiences, the…
Read MoreSeason 27: Episode 3 | The Kids Will Be Alright, Right?
This week, Ruth and Jay are joined by producer Colleen to discuss the challenges and strategies of parenting in the digital age. They discuss what they see as the pressing…
Read MoreSeason 27: Episode 2 | Paying Attention to What’s Getting our Attention
In this episode, Ruth and Jay dive into the impact of digital technology on our attention spans and mental health. They reflect on personal experiences of technology’s pervasive influence and…
Read MoreSeason 27: Episode 1 | Turning Off the Noise, Tuning In to Our Life with God
This week, Ruth and Jay delve into the challenges and opportunities presented by technology in our spiritual lives. They discuss the necessity of solitude, silence, and retreat for spiritual formation…
Read MoreSeason 27: Episode 0 | Taming our Technologies: [Spiritual] Practices for a Digital Age
We’re back for Season 27, titled “Taming our Technologies: [Spiritual] Practices for a Digital Age.” This season we have a special co-host, pastor, author, and podcast host Jay Y. Kim!…
Read MoreTEASER: Summer Poetry Fest Episode 1 | The Journey by Mary Oliver
Hey all! We’re popping into your podcast feeds to share a peek at something we’re doing over on Patreon this summer! We’re calling it the Summer Poetry Fest. Each month…
Read MoreBONUS | The Gift of Desperation: 12 Steps as a Model for Spiritual Transformation
In this special bonus episode Ruth converses with pastor, author, speaker and long time friend, John Ortberg about his new book Steps, A Guide to Transforming Your Life When Willpower…
Read More[Revisiting] Transforming Post-Resurrection Encounters with Jesus
Christ is risen! Happy Easter Monday, friends. Once again, Ruth invites us to celebrate the Risen Jesus through five powerful post-resurrection encounters. These stories have been shared before, yet they…
Read MoreIt is the Lord!
Happy Easter Monday, friends! Once again, Ruth invites us to celebrate the risen Jesus through five powerful post-resurrection encounters. We’ve reflected on these stories before, yet they continue to speak.…
Read MoreSeason 26: Episode 7 | Going Through: Tarrying for God’s Strength in Times of Trouble
In the final episode of season 26, we are sharing a poignant discussion with Ruth and TC team member, Tina Harris. Tina shares her experience of tarrying as a communal…
Read MoreSeason 26: Episode 6 | Desperate for God to Intervene: The Ongoing Tarry
In this episode, Ruth engages in a profound conversation with Joy and David Bailey. Together, they delve into the themes from Dr. Selena Stone’s book ‘Tarry Awhile,’ focusing on chapter…
Read MoreSeason 26: Episode 5 | Quiet: Stewarding the Tarrying Moment in Worship
This week, Ruth welcomes artist and pastor Delwin Eiland to discuss the spiritual practice of tarrying. Delwin shares his experience as a worship leader, emphasizing the importance of silence and…
Read MoreSeason 26: Episode 4 | Tarrying with the Spirit of Justice: Orienting Ourselves Towards Ultimate Reality
Ruth is joined this week by Rasool Berry, teaching pastor and director of partnerships and content development at Our Daily Bread Ministries. They continue our conversations about tarrying, this time…
Read MoreSeason 26: Episode 3 | Active Tarrying: Finding Freedom to Move with God’s Spirit
This week, Ruth and guest Reverend Dr. Phaedra Blocker are exploring chapter 3, “Movement,” of Selina Stone’s book Tarry Awhile: Wisdom from Black Spirituality for People of Faith. The two…
Read MoreSeason 26: Episode 2 | Minding the Gap: Moving Beyond Dualism to Oneness
In this episode, Ruth and special guest Reverend Dr. Prince Rivers discuss the second chapter of Selina Stone’s book, Tarry Awhile. Prince shares personal stories from his life and ministry.…
Read MoreSeason 26: Episode 1 | Tarrying For the Spirit: Waiting to Receive What We Need From God
We are journeying through Lent with a podcast season entitled “Tarry with Me Awhile: Learnings from the Black Church.” We will use Dr. Selina Stone’s book, Tarry Awhile: Wisdom from…
Read MoreSeason 25: Episode 4 | Advent Week 4: An Invitation to Find God in Unexpected Places
In this final episode of the season, we are joined by none other than the author of Silence and Other Surprising Invitations of Advent herself, Enuma Okoro!! Enuma joins Charity,…
Read MoreSeason 25: Episode 3 | Advent Week 3: An Invitation to the Wilderness
Charity, Jeff, and Colleen are joined this week by the Transforming Center’s ambassador and resident theologian, David Hughes. David brings a depth of wisdom and experience to this conversation. The…
Read MoreSeason 25: Episode 2 | Advent Week 2: An Invitation to Transformation in Seasons of Barrenness
Charity, Jeff, and Colleen are joined for the second week of Advent by the OG of the OGs, as far as the Transforming Center is concerned, Dalene Strieff! The episode…
Read MoreSeason 25: Episode 1 | Advent Week 1: An Invitation to a New Season in Advent
This season, as Advent falls on the heels of a contentious election season here in America and amidst the reality of war and violence around the world, we here at…
Read MoreSeason 24: Episode 8 | Wrestling with the Cross: What does the Atonement Really Mean?
In today’s episode, Ruth and guests Rev. Dr. Prince Rivers and Rev. Dr. David Hughes navigate the depths of the future of Christian spirituality through the lenses of the atonement.…
Read MoreSeason 24: Episode 7 | The Work of Justice: Restoring what has Been Lost, Repairing What has been Broken
In this episode, Ruth delves into the future of Christian spirituality as it pertains to the role of justice. Joined by her long-time friend and expert in reconciliation studies, Dr.…
Read MoreSeason 24: Episode 6 | Making Room: Welcoming the One Who is Strange to You
What does it mean to be welcoming and inclusive from a rooted depth, and how do we see the Holy Spirit nudging us towards this concept? Ruth is joined by…
Read MoreBONUS: Connecting the State of Our Politics and the State of Our Souls
We cannot ignore the current state of our politics and the toll it has taken on the American public. As we approach another election season we wanted to provide you…
Read MoreSeason 24: Episode 5 | Knocking on Heaven’s Door: A Spirituality that is Practice-Based
Is the Holy Spirit moving us towards a spirituality that is practice-based and practice-oriented rather than faith-based and belief-oriented? This week, Ruth and Fr. Michael Sparough sit down to discuss…
Read MoreSeason 24: Episode 4 | Reading in Color: Engaging Scripture Across Cultural Contexts
How is the Holy Spirit leading us to engage with scripture in new and fresh ways? That’s what Ruth and guest Esau McCaulley discuss this week. Esau shares about his…
Read MoreSeason 24: Episode 3 | Attending to the Spirit: The Gift of Spiritual Direction
If a greater understanding and awareness of our own desires is part of the future of Christian spirituality, then today’s topic, spiritual direction, is a necessary companion in that journey…
Read MoreSeason 24: Episode 2 | Understanding Our Complexity: The Role of Desire in the Spiritual Life
The future of Christian spirituality will be propelled by a greater understanding and respect for the role of desire and desperation in the spiritual life. That is Ruth’s belief and…
Read MoreSeason 24: Episode 1 | The Future of Christian Spirituality: Towards a More Unified Faith
Welcome to season 24! This season we are exploring the future of Christian spirituality. Based on her own experience and the lives of people she accompanies on the journey, Ruth…
Read MoreSeason 23: Episode 5 | The Head Center: Managing Our Relationship with Fear
Finally, we’ve arrived at the head center! Ruth and Erin will discuss the 5s, 6s, and 7s of this triad and their special relationship to fear. Erin and Ruth cover…
Read MoreSeason 23: Episode 4 | The Heart Center: Managing Our Relationship with Connection and Disconnection
It’s time for the heart center numbers! Ruth and Erin will discuss the 2s, 3s, and 4s of this triad and their special relationship to connection and disconnection. Erin breaks…
Read MoreSeason 23: Episode 3 | The Body Center: Managing Our Relationship with Anger
We are exploring the body triad this week! Containing the enneagram 8s, 9s, and 1s, these folks have to work to manage their relationship with anger. Ruth and Erin discuss…
Read MoreSeason 23: Episode 2 | Beyond the Basics, Beyond the Behaviors
In this episode, Ruth is joined by our guest this season, Erin Baute! Erin and Ruth discuss the three subtypes or instincts, how they show up in all of us…
Read MoreSeason 23: Episode 1 | It Was the Worst of Times: How the Enneagram Can Help Us Navigate a Troubled World
Welcome to season 23! This season we are using the framework of the enneagram, and in particular the ways the 3 instinctual subtypes impact each enneagram number, to help people…
Read MoreEaster Monday | Transforming Post-Resurrection Encounters with Jesus (A Replay)
We are revisiting last year’s Easter Monday episode because we found the reflections to still be so timely with the themes we discussed during this season of the podcast. We…
Read MoreSeason 22: Episode 7 | Walking With Jesus in His Suffering During Holy Week
In this special episode, Ruth wraps up our season on suffering and the formation of hope and ushers us into the last few days of Holy Week. Holy Week allows…
Read MoreSeason 22: Episode 6 | A Hope That Does Not Disappoint
This week concludes our conversations with Curt Thompson, MD. Ruth and Curt examine what makes for a safe community. Why is it important to experience places of tension, hurt, and…
Read MoreSeason 22: Episode 5 | This is Hard! The Role of Endurance in Forming a Durable Hope
How does endurance or perseverance fit into this process of having a durable hope formed in us? How do we know we are making progress in this endeavor? What do…
Read MoreSeason 22: Episode 4 | Hope in the Midst of Collective Suffering
This week we are taking a break from our conversations with Curt and his book The Deepest Place to talk about a different aspect of suffering: the communal, unmerited suffering…
Read MoreSeason 22: Episode 3 | What Does God’s Glory Have to Do With Our Suffering?
What does God’s glory have to do with our suffering? How do we wrestle with the crucifixion of Christ and the issue of atonement as it relates to suffering and…
Read MoreSeason 22: Episode 2 | Compassion and Curiosity: Attuning to Different Parts of our Suffering
In this episode, Ruth and Curt dive all the way into the deep end as they discuss attachment, attunement, and internal family systems. The pair also tackle the importance of…
Read MoreSeason 22: Episode 1 | What’s Suffering Got to Do With It (Our Transformation)?
What does suffering have to do with our transformation? That is the question Ruth and Curt explore this season on the podcast! In today’s episode, they discuss how the Christian…
Read MoreBONUS: Preparing for Lent | Fashioning Your Own Desert
Lent is upon us again. In this special bonus episode, Ruth shares her remarks from our recent live, virtual event designed to help us prepare for Lent. Lent is for…
Read MoreVisio Divina Guided Practice | Assumptions
We were so lucky to have Scott Erickson on the podcast this season! Not only did he share his wisdom and thoughtfulness, but he also shared his art and his…
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